Mission 2: Change your style.
I have already done that. I currently have a messy style of hair, though I shave the back of my neck and face so it appears intentional. I wear jeans or dress pants with dress shirt. I have a few types of shoes, 2 dress (brown and black), new balance runners for casual days at school and Harley Davidson boots for the bars. I have a black titanium thumb ring, as well as Diesel and Bulova watches. I am somewhat european skinny, though I am lean/muscular. I do use rub on tans for my face/hands and on occassion go for Mystic Tans. My teeth are quite good, thanks to braces, though they can be whitened. I wear contact lenses now for school/bars. I have also been working on my posture and stance a lot more.

Notes:

• The more attractive women you approach the more you will attract. You approach none, you’ve attracted none.
• You are not intruding on the women you approach. They don’t think of you as impolite for talking to her, she is flattered at some level.
• 5 of 10 women you approach are going to be receptive to it. 1 in 10 are going to have a strange reaction. The other 4 will be standoffish because they aren’t attracted much. This is not you, its them.
• Even if you are rejected in the worst possible way you are still OK at the end of the day. DROP THE FUCKING EGO. If you always play to not lose you can’t ever win.
• There are 3 tricks for getting over approach anxiety:
1. Get all drunk out at a bar or nightclub, make it your absolute goal to talk to 25 women you do not know. (I don’t drink so this will be done sober)
2. Dedicate yourself to doing the 25 approaches with a like-minded individual with a bet riding on it. Some amount of money you don’t want to pay out.
3. Do not masturbate at all until you have approached 25 women in all. (I haven’t done so in over a week thus far, so I hope to be able to control the urge to splurge)
• “Stalin’s” trick; stimulate yourself though not till release. Said to give mental and willpower edge, and quell fear.
• You can meet women ANYWHERE:
• Women showing skin and alone are your best targets.
• Women in more revealing outfits have given some sexual thought to their manner of ress.
• Women you are most attracted to are usually more attracted to you as well.

Mission 3: No masturbating, just approaching (Doing this tonight)

• I will be approaching 25 women, 8-10s tonight. If there are no more 8-10s and I havent yet reached 25 women, I will proceed down the scale to 6’s and 7’s. (I will be doing this at the bar/club tonight)
• Introduce yourself with your first and last name, ask for hers and say “I gotta go run, but I’d love to get your phone number and call you sometime”

Relaxation
R - relaxation of mind pace and body through familiarity with female interactions and realizing others care more what I think of them than they even think of me

• Make eye contact, don’t mumble, don’t tell inside jokes only you get, have a relaxed posture with chest out
• No one is thinking about you. They are too busy thinking about what YOU think of THEM to think anything about YOU, SO they can only “feel you”
• Have the thought in your head, during the interaction, that “others care more what I think of them than they can even think of me”.
• What not to say or talk about in a conversation:
• Fucked: gore, guts, rape, scabs…
• Sex: this will drive her conditioning against it through the rood if done improperly.
• Joker: Don’t try to hard to be funny
• Total Guy: Sports, boxing, computer programming…
• Boyfriend, some guy she wants: Change the subject and FAST. Acknowledge it with a nod or “oh yeah” and change the subject.
• Negatives: Shit like hr job she hates, her problems. If negatives come up say “Ahh lets forget about all that ugly stuff and go get some ice cream!” with a tongue in cheek goffy smile.
• Politics, abortion, human rights violations, hatred of immigrants, your racism against this or that people.

A - assumption of rapport

• When you approach, have this thought in your mind; “We are not strangers, we have a rapport, and you can trust me cause we are already together or know each other”.
• You do not want to assume rapport to quickly as this may confuse her, so a few light questions.
• Once you get an IOI THEN assume rapport

Mission 4: Assuming you know the 25 girls you’ll approach (Doing this Thursday)

• Feel that you know the 25 girls, and seek out what movies/shows/etc she likes and relate them to the current environment.

Persistence: Never eject from the conversation, get her to sit and talk with you someplace nearby.

• I might think I’m overstaying my welcome. You can’t read minds, so how do you know they feel the same way?
• Go till the ho says no