Barry is a great guy; he’s down to earth and extremely funny. During his presentation he ends up wearing lingerie. I was inspired that he could do that in front of a bunch of guys, as well as a few girls. At lunch break I decided to throw on a Speedo and walk around downtown Toronto with it on. Barry ends up talking to me about wearing a Speedo, and we have a good laugh. I guess he was also talking to the other guys about the gold shoes . He comes out with some techno music, wearing a mustache, and checking out his “sexy” self in the mirror. Once he gets on stage he tells us what girls TRULY like

Notes

Girls like:
1. Mustaches
2. To sniff cocaine off a hard cock
3. For the man to literally bring home the bacon (actual bacon)

- There is no magic bullet
- He hopes no body is an epiphany seeker
- His philosophy is to take action
- You’re riding on a high in your head if you just think
- Just talk to girls (~3000+ girls)
- EXPOSE YOURSELF
- Push to the next level
- Worst thing – hit a high point and leave
- He’s still nervous talking to girls
- Most other people are insecure, unable to take a look at themselves, they are not in the now.
- He had OCD and was depressed and it really stunted him and screwed up relationships. This was happening while he was also trying to get better with girls
- If you have other issues fix those issues first
- Most people around you are no competition

- Humour
i. There is a difference between guy and girl humour. Girls not hot/not stuck up, you can be goofy (i.e. throwing bacon on yourself). Barry doesn’t go for stuck up girls. Barry likes putting bacon on himself, he doesn’t give a crap, and that’s what people like. Role-play, tease, and relax.

- Routines weren’t him cause by doing routines he was losing himself. Find yourself

- Phone numbers
i. Text messaging can replace first phone call, thus relieving stress. Over time after you bounce 4-5 messages and are goofing around, then that first phone call is a fuck of a lot easier. That first phone call is actually like a second call.

- For gum, go to religious store and get “Testamints”
i. Open with, “Would you like a Testamint?”
ii. Read parable on the back
1. Don’t do an act to them, cause it’ll be like you’re entertaining them
2. If you’re incongruent it’ll bomb
3. Rather than buying a new pack, cause they can be hard to get, just keep the box and stick a back of Dentyne in it

- How To Get Better Fast
i. It’s easy in a sense if you
1. Expose yourself.
a. Expose yourself to shit situations
b. Do things in public settings that make you uncomfortable. This will enrich yourself
2. Expose yourself
a. Go out more and talk to people; Mystery did this relentlessly
3. Suck some guys cock for a nickel

- Why Do Jokes Suck?
i. Lack of conviction
ii. Delivery is key. It’s how you deliver it.

(This is the point where he comes out in lingerie)

- Can You Control A Woman?
i. You can with the right mechanisms (i.e. Nintendo joystick on her vagina, so you can control it pressing B, B, A, Start, Select, Down, Up)
ii. A Second way to get more girls is:
1. Control The Frame
a. I.e. He’s walking around with lingerie and he’s confident from the source he’s coming from, where he doesn’t give a shit
b. Ignoring every fucking thing he’s saying
c. Keep going without laughing (during a joke) is keeping a frame
- Learning To Take Off A Bra
i. How he learned to take off bras was he and his buds they took bras off each other (60+ times (exposure))
Question & Answer
- How do you lay lots of girls?
i. Never focused on pushing to be more sexual, wanted to push interaction. He just focused on having fun and when sexual comes then go sexual.
ii. Conviction
1. Seinfeld looks comfortable in his own skin.
2. Come from a place that you are good at this
iii. Never look on past the moment
1. If you are looking at where to go next, you are taking yourself out of the fun
- One last thing to say to all the guys Barry?
i. FUCK OFF!

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