Nobody in the lair claims to be a “pua;” it’s not a religion. They’re just dudes that want to improve themselves. Many of us are coming from fucked up situations, and carrying some heavy stuff around.

Forums are like an alternate reality, where thoughts that change with experience are vomited into the void. Why are you letting it affect your reality?

I have no idea if you are good with women, and 99% of the guys that read this post won’t give it a second thought. infact, most of the “real” pua’s are too busy enjoying life to talk shit about others on the internet.

You are “Becoming a pua.” If you start a blog and draw attention to yourself, there will be critics. Can you imagine all the shit guys like Mystery, Tyler Durden, Ross Jeffries, or any famous person have to deal with on a daily basis? Do they have the time to address every critic? It would be a pointless job.

The only way to deal with this is to completely ignore it. Do not let what others think affect your reality in the slightest. Instead take that energy and give your readers something of value, like a story or a lesson. I like Field Reports.

I mean, you should know this. We’re all learning, even these guys. I know them, they’re not pricks, just bored guys chatting on a form that few if any will even read or care.

By even addressing issues like this you feed your own paranoia. The only issue that exists are the ones you let affect you.

You should read Tyler Durdens blog on how he deals with fame. Talk about a guy with haters. Dude…he’s a pick up artist! Prepare for plenty of
fear. Or better yet…don’t.