Words are the most important thing when it comes to seduction. Body language is able to ignite attraction, but words are needed to persuade. Most guys doing pick-up want to do so in bars. Why? It gives you the greatest opportunity to practice. There are lots of girls in one small space. When you get shot down just turn around and you will find another girl to practice on.

It’s common knowledge in the community that the louder the club the hotter the girls. Reason being that there less guys to bother the girls. The point of being a pick-up artist is to be better than most guys. If you want hot girls and enjoy going to clubs then you it would be a good idea to learn to project your voice.

We have very little opportunity to practice talking in the world today. We would rather text message or send an e-mail. In order to gain a voice that can project in any environment you have to practice a lot and/or find a vocal coach.

Tyler Durden practiced a lot and developed a great voice for projecting. I personally find his voice to be annoying, but that is the perfect voice for projecting.

Here is a clip if Tyler talking at his conference.

We think that talking low is how a man should talk. Sure it’s good for talking to your lady friend in a sexual tone, but not for talking to one in a club.

The ideal voice is one that is a blend of Tarzan and nerd. Doing so gives you a wide range of projected frequencies, which means it’s less likely your voice will be drowned out.

Here are 6 tips to help get your voice to project:

• 1. Warm it up. In a club you are using your voice in the extreme. When a weight lifter is about to life 700 lbs he doesn’t just jump in and lift it. He warms up and stretches. You need to warm up and stretch your vocal cords. Get a bunch of music that has low tones and high tones and sing or hum to it. Many stage performers will warm up for an hour before performing. Now you don’t have to warm up that long, though it wouldn’t hurt.

• 2. Keep your head up. By lowering/lifting your head you collapse/outstretch your throat. This causes discomfort and doesn’t allow the maximum flow of air through your throat. If you have to look down/up then take a step back so you just have to use your eyes to see them.

• 3. Breathe from your gut. Your gut can hold lots of air. This will give you all the air you need to talk.

• 4. Use the air you have. Do not hold back on the air you have. Just let it out.

• 5. Breathe. Don’t strain out the last ounce of air you have. When you’re talking and you feel your air reserves getting low, stop, breathe, and continue talking.

• 6. Relax. When you tense up it means that you’re fighting against what you want to do. You want to project, don’t fight it. Let it go and let it flow.

If you want to get your voice just right then I would recommend a vocal coach. I’ve tried the tapes and they don’t even come close to a one-on-one vocal coach.