Hey guys! This is a first for “You Ask, I Answer”. We have a bunch of questions from September 30th, and I am now going to answer them.

Takashi asks:

What tactics do you use to expand your social circle? How do you get the people you know eagerly want to introduce you to their circle/ or new people?

I get out of my house as much as possible. I live on the “ghetto” side of my city where it is mostly old people and “gangstas”. The people I like to hang out with are University types; willing to have fun and live life to the fullest. Having people who are far away forces me to go the extra mile. I make friends and go out of my way to hang around them. I show people that I am different among other people, in a good way, and they want me back. I go out of my way to be so different that people have to come to my place to see me. I’m now getting to the point where I have enough people who are willing to come to my place to hang out that I no longer have to waste so much of my own energy. Be different and act like you don’t need them, but still be cool and funny at the same time.

Wednesday asks:

1) Is it worth it to memorize canned material these days?

2) What would be better for a total AFC more interested in daygame than night game - Juggler Method or Mystery Method?

1) If you are just starting out then use canned material. If you have been in the game awhile then you should develop your own material.

2) I find, for day game, that indirect game is best. Both methods can be used for indirect. If you are a rational person who likes a lot of structure then go Mystery Method, if you want to flow and only need to worry about using the word “sexy” then go Juggler.

Wisdom asks:

What different routines or methods do you use when you are stacking material during the first 10-15 minutes of the conversation?

Yo Wisdom! I’m not that rigid with my conversations. I prefer to cram as much information as I can before going out and then going with the flow. Things I find myself often doing are the “wing, wing, wing” magic trick, using my grapho-deck for handwriting analysis (still haven’t memorized the damn cards yet :)), and doing dirty palm reads. Other things I do are notice what she’s wearing and what’s going on in that very moment.

G asks:

What happened with the girl you thought was different that you met last week? This was the post where you mentioned marriage and how you were not into the idea etc. Im interested in if you feel like you might be getting into something deep and unknown if you see her more.
I ask this because I have noticed that no one in the community talks about love and how it ties in with ‘game’.
Your thoughts on this might not be a simple answer but they would be appreciated.
G

Hey G! Thanks for brining back those memories! Just kidding I am going to let things go into the “Lets Just Be Friends” zone. She is a great girl and I want the best for her. I do not want her involved with my lifestyle. I would rather keep her as a close friend, which she is, than lose her forever. It seems that the only guys on the boards are of two types: trying to bang as many chicks as possible or trying to sell a product. Guys who have found the love of their life tend to drift away from the boards, because they got what they wanted.

The Dude asks:

How long did it take you to gain confidence and the ability to act naturally around women?

I don’t act naturally around women. I look as though I am, but I’m not. I go with the flow, but a directed flow. I have an outcome in mind with every conversation I have. Different conversational threads come up, but I focus on only those that will get me closer to my outcome. I am confident with myself as a person, but I still get nervous when approaching attractive women.

Sensei asks:

Bank teller PU ideas. I’m not the teller, the girl is, but I’m running into issues coming up with ideas for a PU with the short amount of time I have during my bank transactions. Any and all ideas welcome.

I picked up this attractive teller from Australia a little while back. Making them laugh is key. With the Australian girl I saw this image of the new bank manager. He clearly looked like a goof in the image and I commented on it to the teller. She smirked and went to get my money. I then pulled the “Wing, Wing, Wing” magic trick with her and got her number. Don’t worry about time. Think of how much time those old people waste with tellers asking how to do basic things. It’s your time, use it to your advantage.

brix asks:

I found your post on how you changed more than interesting, inspiring. How many times had you come to that point in your life before hand and failed. How did you get so angry to come to that decision?

I’m not sure what “point” you speak of so I’ll just make some assumptions. I was a happy kid up till the end of high school. That’s cause I was following the system. I was getting good grades. That pleased the teachers and my parents. When I didn’t get exterior support I became depressed and would do things such as cutting myself to relieve the pain. Once I got into University, where you are just another body, I got into a constant depression. That’s cause I never got any exterior support. Teachers didn’t really care and I didn’t discuss my schooling with my parents. I then got into a car accident, which really depressed me, to the point of killing myself. I then found the community, improved my inner and outer game, and now am on my way to living my life to the fullest.

Jack asks:

How do you go about sarging girls in a 400 person lecture class? Even though the professor can hear. Notes seem kind of lame. Tic tac toe is an awesome idea but where do you go from there? Etc. How do YOU do it?

I just talk to the girls around me. When the teacher/others get upset then I ask the girl for her MSN and we IM one another.

Jason asks:

how old were you when you first:
1. Kissed a girl?
2. Got a hand job?
3. Got head?
4. Had sex?

1. I kissed my mom many times as a baby My first date related kiss was in grade 6. So I was about 12 at the time.
2. 22
3. 22
4. 22

If there is anything you’d like me to elaborate on then just make a comment in this post.