Sarging Never Gets Easier
By V on Oct 18, 2007 in Practice, Ramblings
For me going out and picking up girls (A.K.A. sarging) doesn’t get easier.
I’ve heard time and time again that sarging gets easier over time. From my experience it doesn’t.
In the beginning my biggest fear was going out and talking to girls. When you haven’t been around girls before it’s tough to start a conversation with one.
Once it’s easy to open girls the next dilemma is continuing the conversation.
After having a conversation it’s going to sexual discussion, and then to intercourse. As a 22-year-old virgin there is nothing more daunting then getting a girl to have intercourse.
I’ve fought through all that and thought things would get easy from then on.
Now that I’ve bagged a bunch of victims I have another dilemma.
That dilemma is going out and talking to girls. Things have come full-circle.
I have more numbers, more MSN’s, more emails, and more girls than I need.
Why the heck do I need to go out and talk to more girls?
Maybe that’s why most guys who get good end up stopping. Master PUAs got more than they’ve ever dreamed and see no reason for continuing.
When you’ve had enough that’s OK with me, but I find getting back to the basics imperative. Without the basics, sarging, your well of girls will run dry.
My well may be full, but I never know what will happen in the future.
Time to keep my well full.
It’s sarging time 
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ok im what you consider a natural, i never understood how the process worked until reading “the game.” so anyway my question is, if you are in the middle of a sarge and you get interupted and cant number close or kiss close, the next time you run into that girl so you have to start all over from scratch? or can you ick uup where you left off?
If she remembers you then you can pick up where you left off. If not then you’ll have to start from scratch.
V
Its all situational. First why didn’t the close happen? Was it a slut shield? Was she pulled away by jealous friends? Did you say you kill puppies for a living?
Bottom line is, if you rolled off (left the conversation) while things were on good terms- you can typically enter the convo with a quick reminder of the last thing said and continue on from there.
If it was a slut shield, try again- she will give the digits.
If you left it bad- its best to let it go. It is easier to find a new girl then to fix the one you couldn’t get. In order to accomplish your goal- you are going to DLV (Display of Lower Value) yourself and lean into her, which are 2 things you do not want to do.
IF YOU HAVE TO get this girl, you need to DHV (Display of Higher Value) like no other until attraction is created and it has reset her previous first impression of you- very hard uphill battle.
Where is your favorite place to sarge for day game? Also do you ever get approcah aniety? Lastly do you sarge everysingle time you see a girl you like or if you got something else to do you do that?
My favourite place for day game is the local University.
Yes I get “approach anxiety”. Before it made me fear approaching, now it forces me to approach.
I sarge girls depending on my situation.
V
When you go to the university do you go with the 100 percent intention of nothing but approaching? Also, how many approaches do you average a month?
When I’m not going to classes I focus on approaching.
I go as far as I can go given the circumstances.
I am currently averaging 43 approaches in an 8 hour day. That works out to roughly 1300 approaches a month.
V
Holy Shit
Oh my gosh that is seriously rediculous, I would never have time for that let alone see that many girls that I was actually interested in, you must have a huge university. Well you really turned into an extrovert it seems. Do you have a reputation as the guy that hits on all the girls? Dont u ever approach the same girl over and over again?
I change my appearance on a continuous basis.
Yes, I approach girls more than once.
V
I think it all goes in circles. Sometimes sarging is the easiest thing in the world… other times it feels forced and not worth it. I’m like you in that I’ve bagged quite a few girls over the years..
dont get me wrong.. i’ll always love sleeping with new girls.. but im past the point i need to be in a bar 4 nights a week. I find me a 3 month keeper.. get my rocks off then find another one.
I will agree it doesn’t get easier but you have to realize also that you get used to it. When you make cereal for breakfast, or whatever daily task you want to pick, technically it is just as difficult to do every morning. You still have to get the box pour the bowl and fill it with milk. Sarging is the same way. Though it technically doesn’t get easier you get used to it and in that sense it does get better. Imagine making a bowl of cereal and imagine if picking up a girl was that everyday to you. It does happen just takes time and practice.
Another better example. Remember that high dive diving board? Scary as hell but you jumped off it, you just said F it and jumped. The next time you went up it was still scary but you had done it before and you said F it again. Eventually it isn’t as big deal to you. Sure it is still scary but your are used to the fear and it doesn’t hinder you.
oh and I love the site V, keep up the awesome work