Comments on: Sarging Never Gets Easier

By: Face

Face — Sat, 20 Oct 2007 07:41:49 +0000

Holy Shit

By: Face

Face — Sat, 20 Oct 2007 07:40:19 +0000

Its all situational. First why didn’t the close happen? Was it a slut shield? Was she pulled away by jealous friends? Did you say you kill puppies for a living?

Bottom line is, if you rolled off (left the conversation) while things were on good terms- you can typically enter the convo with a quick reminder of the last thing said and continue on from there.

If it was a slut shield, try again- she will give the digits.

If you left it bad- its best to let it go. It is easier to find a new girl then to fix the one you couldn’t get. In order to accomplish your goal- you are going to DLV (Display of Lower Value) yourself and lean into her, which are 2 things you do not want to do.

IF YOU HAVE TO get this girl, you need to DHV (Display of Higher Value) like no other until attraction is created and it has reset her previous first impression of you- very hard uphill battle.

By: DateDemon

DateDemon — Sat, 20 Oct 2007 07:20:23 +0000

oh and I love the site V, keep up the awesome work

By: DateDemon

DateDemon — Sat, 20 Oct 2007 07:19:01 +0000

I will agree it doesn’t get easier but you have to realize also that you get used to it. When you make cereal for breakfast, or whatever daily task you want to pick, technically it is just as difficult to do every morning. You still have to get the box pour the bowl and fill it with milk. Sarging is the same way. Though it technically doesn’t get easier you get used to it and in that sense it does get better. Imagine making a bowl of cereal and imagine if picking up a girl was that everyday to you. It does happen just takes time and practice.

Another better example. Remember that high dive diving board? Scary as hell but you jumped off it, you just said F it and jumped. The next time you went up it was still scary but you had done it before and you said F it again. Eventually it isn’t as big deal to you. Sure it is still scary but your are used to the fear and it doesn’t hinder you.

By: V

Sat, 20 Oct 2007 02:41:34 +0000

I change my appearance on a continuous basis.

Yes, I approach girls more than once.

By: Bobby Rio

Bobby Rio — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 22:38:22 +0000

I think it all goes in circles. Sometimes sarging is the easiest thing in the world… other times it feels forced and not worth it. I’m like you in that I’ve bagged quite a few girls over the years..

dont get me wrong.. i’ll always love sleeping with new girls.. but im past the point i need to be in a bar 4 nights a week. I find me a 3 month keeper.. get my rocks off then find another one.

By: John Sampson

John Sampson — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 20:01:31 +0000

Oh my gosh that is seriously rediculous, I would never have time for that let alone see that many girls that I was actually interested in, you must have a huge university. Well you really turned into an extrovert it seems. Do you have a reputation as the guy that hits on all the girls? Dont u ever approach the same girl over and over again?

By: V

Fri, 19 Oct 2007 19:24:54 +0000

When I’m not going to classes I focus on approaching.

I go as far as I can go given the circumstances.

I am currently averaging 43 approaches in an 8 hour day. That works out to roughly 1300 approaches a month.

By: John Sampson

John Sampson — Fri, 19 Oct 2007 18:51:19 +0000

When you go to the university do you go with the 100 percent intention of nothing but approaching? Also, how many approaches do you average a month?

By: V

Fri, 19 Oct 2007 15:53:21 +0000

My favourite place for day game is the local University.

Yes I get “approach anxiety”. Before it made me fear approaching, now it forces me to approach.

I sarge girls depending on my situation.