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	<title>Comments on: Robert Greene Helping My Gym Game</title>
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	<description>From 22 Year Old Virgin To Ladies Man</description>
	<pubDate>Mon, 01 Dec 2008 16:53:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: John Wilson</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/01/05/robert-greene-helping-my-gym-game/#comment-4490</link>
		<dc:creator>John Wilson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Feb 2008 02:22:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That's a great book, "The Art of Seduction". I am half way through it, a lot of historical stuff but invaluable tips. I found out about it from "Dr Z on Scoring", another awesome book, written by a very hot woman.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s a great book, &#8220;The Art of Seduction&#8221;. I am half way through it, a lot of historical stuff but invaluable tips. I found out about it from &#8220;Dr Z on Scoring&#8221;, another awesome book, written by a very hot woman.</p>
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		<title>By: V</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/01/05/robert-greene-helping-my-gym-game/#comment-4025</link>
		<dc:creator>V</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2008 01:37:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I got back to her place by riding in her car.

My escalation went like this:
1. We arrive at her place
2. I look her in the eyes and smile
3. We exit her car
4. We walk together towards her entrance
5. Mya opens the door
6. I meet her dog.
7. We take off our jackets
. . . 

I consider escalation an ever changing dynamic that I am conscious of. I do not consider it to be rational steps, but attending to certain details.

No, I never received last minute resistance.

What I have studied is far more than just rational steps. I have given recommendations on what to read in the past, but received complaints that it was boring/too text book.

V</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got back to her place by riding in her car.</p>
<p>My escalation went like this:<br />
1. We arrive at her place<br />
2. I look her in the eyes and smile<br />
3. We exit her car<br />
4. We walk together towards her entrance<br />
5. Mya opens the door<br />
6. I meet her dog.<br />
7. We take off our jackets<br />
. . . </p>
<p>I consider escalation an ever changing dynamic that I am conscious of. I do not consider it to be rational steps, but attending to certain details.</p>
<p>No, I never received last minute resistance.</p>
<p>What I have studied is far more than just rational steps. I have given recommendations on what to read in the past, but received complaints that it was boring/too text book.</p>
<p>V</p>
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		<title>By: Alex</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/01/05/robert-greene-helping-my-gym-game/#comment-4024</link>
		<dc:creator>Alex</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2008 01:09:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alright, so how did you get back to her place? And from there, how did you escalate? Did she give you any LMR? Going from the gym to sex seems a bit out there. I'm asking because it could be useful to not only myself but to many others on this site.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alright, so how did you get back to her place? And from there, how did you escalate? Did she give you any LMR? Going from the gym to sex seems a bit out there. I&#8217;m asking because it could be useful to not only myself but to many others on this site.</p>
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		<title>By: Commenting With Wednesday &#124; Becoming A Pick-Up Artist</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/01/05/robert-greene-helping-my-gym-game/#comment-3972</link>
		<dc:creator>Commenting With Wednesday &#124; Becoming A Pick-Up Artist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2008 02:45:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] asked some good questions in the comment section of my Robert Greene Helping My Gym Game [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] asked some good questions in the comment section of my Robert Greene Helping My Gym Game [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: V</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/01/05/robert-greene-helping-my-gym-game/#comment-3971</link>
		<dc:creator>V</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2008 02:41:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Wednesday,

When I stated that we had a conversation on if she's good enough for me I meant that I was the one asking, indirectly, if she was good enough for me.

Perception is the key. One falter (stutter, throat gulp, awkward pause . . .) and your view on reality is shattered to the girl. I just don't care what the outcome is. I know a desired outcome, but I don't worry if it comes to fruition or not. If I do worry about what happens, which I tend to do around 9's and 10's, then I can slip up.

If a girl is insecure then I reassure her through touch and eye-contact rather than words.

V</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Wednesday,</p>
<p>When I stated that we had a conversation on if she&#8217;s good enough for me I meant that I was the one asking, indirectly, if she was good enough for me.</p>
<p>Perception is the key. One falter (stutter, throat gulp, awkward pause . . .) and your view on reality is shattered to the girl. I just don&#8217;t care what the outcome is. I know a desired outcome, but I don&#8217;t worry if it comes to fruition or not. If I do worry about what happens, which I tend to do around 9&#8217;s and 10&#8217;s, then I can slip up.</p>
<p>If a girl is insecure then I reassure her through touch and eye-contact rather than words.</p>
<p>V</p>
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		<title>By: Bobby Rio</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/01/05/robert-greene-helping-my-gym-game/#comment-3963</link>
		<dc:creator>Bobby Rio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2008 01:25:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Art of seduction is the best book out there for controlling a relationship... 

its not great for pickup. but once you've gotten a couple dates with a girl.. this book will lock it down.. can be deadly though</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Art of seduction is the best book out there for controlling a relationship&#8230; </p>
<p>its not great for pickup. but once you&#8217;ve gotten a couple dates with a girl.. this book will lock it down.. can be deadly though</p>
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		<title>By: Wednesday</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/01/05/robert-greene-helping-my-gym-game/#comment-3953</link>
		<dc:creator>Wednesday</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jan 2008 22:07:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"Then we get into a whole conversation on if she’s good enough for me and a bunch of insecure female bullshit."

Can you elaborate on this part?  Whenever I try to clearly set the frame as the prize (i.e. "you want to fuck me") the girl just laughs.  Or flat-out denies it.  Was you saying "I don't want to fuck you" key here?

And how do you deal with "insecure female bullshit?"  I've been busting on her and ripping on her, because I figured trying to reassure her would be supplication.  But I'm not sure the "asshole" approach works.  What's your approach?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Then we get into a whole conversation on if she’s good enough for me and a bunch of insecure female bullshit.&#8221;</p>
<p>Can you elaborate on this part?  Whenever I try to clearly set the frame as the prize (i.e. &#8220;you want to fuck me&#8221;) the girl just laughs.  Or flat-out denies it.  Was you saying &#8220;I don&#8217;t want to fuck you&#8221; key here?</p>
<p>And how do you deal with &#8220;insecure female bullshit?&#8221;  I&#8217;ve been busting on her and ripping on her, because I figured trying to reassure her would be supplication.  But I&#8217;m not sure the &#8220;asshole&#8221; approach works.  What&#8217;s your approach?</p>
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		<title>By: V</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/01/05/robert-greene-helping-my-gym-game/#comment-3950</link>
		<dc:creator>V</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jan 2008 14:23:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"I dare do all that may become a man; Who dares do more is none."
-(Macbeth Act I, Scene VII)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I dare do all that may become a man; Who dares do more is none.&#8221;<br />
-(Macbeth Act I, Scene VII)</p>
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		<title>By: T</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/01/05/robert-greene-helping-my-gym-game/#comment-3949</link>
		<dc:creator>T</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jan 2008 11:05:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome story.  You ever get a chance, fuck with this machne call a treadclimber.  They're pretty knew, combination treadmill and stairclimber, burn fat way faster than any other machine I ever used but are easy on the knees.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome story.  You ever get a chance, fuck with this machne call a treadclimber.  They&#8217;re pretty knew, combination treadmill and stairclimber, burn fat way faster than any other machine I ever used but are easy on the knees.</p>
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		<title>By: mrok</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/01/05/robert-greene-helping-my-gym-game/#comment-3947</link>
		<dc:creator>mrok</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jan 2008 07:33:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I sometimes ponder this as well</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I sometimes ponder this as well</p>
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