Family Findings
By V on Jan 25, 2008 in Ramblings
I’ve had the “privilege” of being in the company of over 80 families. These are families of girl friends. Some were divorced, some long time lovers, some had sons and daughters, while others had just a daughter.
You get the picture.
Here are some notes I’ve made while being around these families.:
Father
- Father is pussy-whipped by the time he’s married, possibly before
- Taught to conform to his “social notch” or possibility of companionship is 0.
- Made to see women want security over a man with integrity.
- Father has zero backbone, so son (if there is one) has to make the family proud.
Mother
- Child comes first and future second.
- Emotion first, logic second.
- After the mother has a child she MUST get back to “reality” and detach from the child (school and meds for the kid helps with detachment).
Son
- Gotta make the family proud.
- Be cool and get friends.
- Be known and you’ll get the girl.
Daughter
- Given the good things in life by daddy. Taught to expect the good things from hubby, no matter what the price.

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Really solidifys my thoughts on why i don’t want a conventional “family” of my own.
Do you think the fathers are happy?
When they’re provided with external rewards for being a “good” father (i.e. nice car, alcohol, prescription drugs) then yes they’re happy.
V
Glad to see my family is going RIGHT unlike loser families like this. All thanks to father. When the father is a real man, the family dynamic you’ve listed changes.