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	<title>Comments on: Being Heard In Bars &#038; Clubs</title>
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	<description>From 22 Year Old Virgin To Ladies Man</description>
	<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 18:31:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: V</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/02/04/being-heard-in-bars-clubs/#comment-4457</link>
		<dc:creator>V</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2008 23:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tell the person you can't hear them and move them to a quieter area.

V</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tell the person you can&#8217;t hear them and move them to a quieter area.</p>
<p>V</p>
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		<title>By: JB</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/02/04/being-heard-in-bars-clubs/#comment-4453</link>
		<dc:creator>JB</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2008 01:09:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good tip about standing back.  I'm a few inches taller than most of my guy friends and 8-12 inches taller than the girls I normally go after, and they often have problems hearing me.  One way to deal with that is to sit the girl up on a tall stool at the bar, while leaning back against the bar next to her.

Do you have any tips for &lt;i&gt;hearing&lt;/i&gt; people in loud clubs?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good tip about standing back.  I&#8217;m a few inches taller than most of my guy friends and 8-12 inches taller than the girls I normally go after, and they often have problems hearing me.  One way to deal with that is to sit the girl up on a tall stool at the bar, while leaning back against the bar next to her.</p>
<p>Do you have any tips for <i>hearing</i> people in loud clubs?</p>
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		<title>By: V</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/02/04/being-heard-in-bars-clubs/#comment-4367</link>
		<dc:creator>V</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2008 04:20:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Damn you Oprah!

You got me. Edit made :)

V</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Damn you Oprah!</p>
<p>You got me. Edit made <img src='http://www.becomingapua.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>V</p>
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		<title>By: Jason</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/02/04/being-heard-in-bars-clubs/#comment-4366</link>
		<dc:creator>Jason</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2008 04:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hahaha...Oprah singers...like Oprah Winfrey?  or OPERA singers?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hahaha&#8230;Oprah singers&#8230;like Oprah Winfrey?  or OPERA singers?</p>
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		<title>By: PFC</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/02/04/being-heard-in-bars-clubs/#comment-4359</link>
		<dc:creator>PFC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2008 17:12:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A lot of venues don't have a single room that is quiet enough to speak at a normal level. I think this is a big mistake... 

If I can find a happening club with at least one room that hasn't got music constantly blasting at hearing-damaging volumes, usually thats the one I would prefer.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A lot of venues don&#8217;t have a single room that is quiet enough to speak at a normal level. I think this is a big mistake&#8230; </p>
<p>If I can find a happening club with at least one room that hasn&#8217;t got music constantly blasting at hearing-damaging volumes, usually thats the one I would prefer.</p>
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		<title>By: Tom</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Feb 2008 10:20:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good hints, also for giving presentations!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good hints, also for giving presentations!</p>
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		<title>By: V</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/02/04/being-heard-in-bars-clubs/#comment-4344</link>
		<dc:creator>V</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Feb 2008 04:11:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Most guys force their voice lower then it should be. You seem to be doing the same. Having a low voice in bars and clubs is to your detriment, because you'll be drowned out by the music.

It's all about finding the wavelength(s) available The tone I use in clubs is a lot higher than the tone I use when I'm in bed with a girl.

Most of the vibrations, when I'm in a loud club, occur in my face.

V</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most guys force their voice lower then it should be. You seem to be doing the same. Having a low voice in bars and clubs is to your detriment, because you&#8217;ll be drowned out by the music.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s all about finding the wavelength(s) available The tone I use in clubs is a lot higher than the tone I use when I&#8217;m in bed with a girl.</p>
<p>Most of the vibrations, when I&#8217;m in a loud club, occur in my face.</p>
<p>V</p>
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		<title>By: Victor</title>
		<link>http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/02/04/being-heard-in-bars-clubs/#comment-4343</link>
		<dc:creator>Victor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Feb 2008 03:56:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I still have a question on that. When you are projecting your voice deep enough, or to say better, with the correct tone... should you feel vibration from below your chest or belly?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I still have a question on that. When you are projecting your voice deep enough, or to say better, with the correct tone&#8230; should you feel vibration from below your chest or belly?</p>
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