Comments on: Back From Cuba! http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/02/19/back-from-cuba/ From 22 Year Old Virgin To Ladies Man Thu, 20 Nov 2008 16:32:24 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 By: Sequoia http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/02/19/back-from-cuba/#comment-4461 Sequoia Wed, 20 Feb 2008 20:00:52 +0000 http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/02/19/back-from-cuba/#comment-4461 You Gold digging slut!! ;) I guess 10+ hours of work a day pays off. Keep up the good work man. Any chance you could do a blog post on mLTRs? I find anxiety needs to be overcome at every stage of the pick up. Approach Platonic to personal personal to sexual sexual to mLTR Anxiety occurs when I need to make a risk to get a reward. I have conquered the first three, however, the risk of losing a good girl always puts me in fear. Its not even a logical risk, I know that the women would stay with me if I told them "I'm seeing other people, nothing serious." in the beginning, but I don't. And I get stuck in single relationships. Sequoia You Gold digging slut!! ;) I guess 10+ hours of work a day pays off. Keep up the good work man. Any chance you could do a blog post on mLTRs?

I find anxiety needs to be overcome at every stage of the pick up.
Approach
Platonic to personal
personal to sexual
sexual to mLTR

Anxiety occurs when I need to make a risk to get a reward. I have conquered the first three, however, the risk of losing a good girl always puts me in fear. Its not even a logical risk, I know that the women would stay with me if I told them “I’m seeing other people, nothing serious.” in the beginning, but I don’t. And I get stuck in single relationships.

Sequoia

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