Getting Multiple Long Term Relationships
By V on Feb 20, 2008 in Community, Dates, Practice
A lot of guys want to be Hugh Hefner; one guy with many girls. My advice? Be honest.
You don’t see Hugh Hefner going around lying that he’s only out for that “one special girl”. He’s the kind of guy that’ll even display his multiple relationships.
I lied my ass off at the beginning of being a PUA to get multiple sexual relationships. It worked, but then the lies caught up with me.
My city contains lots of college/university girls. They are, for the most part, wild and open. That makes it easy for trying new things and getting multiple girl friends.
If you’re friends with attractive outgoing girls you’ll find that they tend to have more than one boyfriend at a time. If you’re an attractive outgoing guy then it should be expected for you to have multiple sexual relationships.
I currently have multiple girl friends and prefer to let girls go when they get stale.
When I meet a new girl I won’t emit any interest on a sexual level. I’ll get the girl to give me her number and make a comment like, “I already have a girl friend. You seem cool so no funny stuff.”
As the relationship grows with the girl I’ll emit “rare” qualities and reveal “my innermost secrets”. If things go to plan then she’ll ask me about having a relationship.
I’ll tell her something like, “I already have a girl friend, you’re OK with that, right?”.
She’ll most likely go with it. If she’s the kind of girl who can handle me having multiple relationships then I’ll go with it.
If you live in a big city with loads of girls, then go ahead and lie your head off to get multiple sexual relationships. If you’re in a moderate size city, like mine, then be honest with the girl. You might be surprised by how far honesty can get you.
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Another reason this works? Women have huge egos. They think the only reason you have this girlfriend is because you haven’t discovered how awesome they are, and once you do you’ll dump the first girl instantly. That’s why so many of them will give you a shot even when you’re honest about being attached.
It’s pretty sad how girls who may have been 10 in High School end up being a 7 in University, yet they still act like they’re a 10.
But hey, if it gets them boyfriends who’ll spend lots of money then power to them.
V
C’MON V.. WE KNOW YOU BE POLY!
http://www.ejhs.org/volume6/polyamory.htm
I prefer not to be boxed in as a certain “type”. Some days I just want to be alone, other days I want to be around many girls.
If I’m “polyamory” to you then that’s your opinion.
V
My question is how do you find the time to sarge 40 hours a week and pay off bills.
I live at home, so I don’t have bills other than food.
V
hey V, great post there!
i’ve been following ur transformation into a PUA rather closely, because I’m also training to be a pua. but right now, i’m still a rookie.
regarding your post here about MLTR and honesty, i have come across a lot of girls with low self-esteem in my area and they have this mentality that attached guys are off limits. so I disagree on the part about being honest about your other relationships. i live in an urban city with lots of girls btw.
The reason why I’m honest is that I prefer not to sucker a low self-esteem girl into a relationship. It does a number on them when they find out you’re with other girls.
V
So what arey your “rare” qualities and reveal “my innermost secrets. An what is your source of income?
“Rare” Qualities:
- Knowledge of wine
- Fine cooking skills
- Knowledge of classical music
- Knowledge of celebrity gossip
- Knowledge of fashion industry
…
“Innermost secrets” are emotional times that may or may not have occurred in your life.
I do web design for income.
V
Re: webdesign- Where besides here can I see your work?
J
My business is my business.
V