Comments on: Well Looky Here http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/ From 22 Year Old Virgin To Ladies Man Mon, 08 Sep 2008 06:25:26 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 By: Face http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4629 Face Mon, 05 May 2008 19:54:05 +0000 http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4629 Boys, I'm just as curious as you are. I have an insider who knows him and I'll see what she can do. He's probably not dead. Atleast I doubt it. To answer the question about taking PUA for the long term- It really works well in the office and the personality traits you get from this crazy game- cocky fun personality, confident, respectful to yourself- help better you in life in general. Face Boys,

I’m just as curious as you are. I have an insider who knows him and I’ll see what she can do.

He’s probably not dead. Atleast I doubt it.

To answer the question about taking PUA for the long term- It really works well in the office and the personality traits you get from this crazy game- cocky fun personality, confident, respectful to yourself- help better you in life in general.

Face

]]> By: gaston http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4628 gaston Mon, 05 May 2008 04:58:21 +0000 http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4628 how do you know he died? how do you know he died?

]]> By: Franker T http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4626 Franker T Fri, 02 May 2008 13:00:39 +0000 http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4626 Yepp, maybe he wasnt right after all, maybe he was just the more stupid than all of us. Yepp, maybe he wasnt right after all, maybe he was just the more stupid than all of us.

]]> By: Jason http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4622 Jason Wed, 30 Apr 2008 19:42:04 +0000 http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4622 ya, so, he died. ya, so, he died.

]]> By: Matt Savage http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4605 Matt Savage Fri, 18 Apr 2008 02:07:05 +0000 http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4605 He's probably just sick of blogging or procrastinated so long that he's forgot about posting. It's really tough trying to maintain a successful blog and become a successful pick-up artist at the same time. Both take a tremendous amount of time and after awhile I think one has to eventually give. He’s probably just sick of blogging or procrastinated so long that he’s forgot about posting. It’s really tough trying to maintain a successful blog and become a successful pick-up artist at the same time. Both take a tremendous amount of time and after awhile I think one has to eventually give.

]]> By: taj http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4597 taj Tue, 08 Apr 2008 19:44:35 +0000 http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4597 He's probably stopped commenting because he no longer needs to go on doing so. For most this was just something interesting to read and follow every now and then and will quickly be replaced with some other blog or webpage. But for a few this will have been the inspiration and motivation required to go out and improve for themselves. That is what I believe this is for, to get those who are capable and who want to do so, to open their eyes and minds and go out improve and start doing what they want to do. It dosen't have to be seducing women either, it could be becoming a singer, training for the job you've always wanted, learning to cook properly, running the marathon any damned thing you like as long as it is what you want to do not what someone else wants. If you can honestly say you have been inspired and are now out going for what it is you want to do i wish you the best of luck and encourage you not to give up in the face of difficulties, keep in mind there will be bad as well as good times and If it really was as easy you would like it to be everyone would be doing it. And to those such as Franker T i leave you with this, you need never fear death for you shall never be alive. He’s probably stopped commenting because he no longer needs to go on doing so.
For most this was just something interesting to read and follow every now and then and will quickly be replaced with some other blog or webpage.
But for a few this will have been the inspiration and motivation required to go out and improve for themselves.
That is what I believe this is for, to get those who are capable and who want to do so, to open their eyes and minds and go out improve and start doing what they want to do. It dosen’t have to be seducing women either, it could be becoming a singer, training for the job you’ve always wanted, learning to cook properly, running the marathon any damned thing you like as long as it is what you want to do not what someone else wants.

If you can honestly say you have been inspired and are now out going for what it is you want to do i wish you the best of luck and encourage you not to give up in the face of difficulties, keep in mind there will be bad as well as good times and If it really was as easy you would like it to be everyone would be doing it.

And to those such as Franker T i leave you with this, you need never fear death for you shall never be alive.

]]> By: Casper http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4596 Casper Tue, 08 Apr 2008 03:42:50 +0000 http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4596 I doubt he's quit...maybe he took a break but his pagerank is up to 4(which is decent)...V is probably making a pretty decent supplementary income off this site...no reason to quit that...I hope he didn't die! jeez...Let's just hope he's in the lab working on some fresh new content, field reports, and pushing himself and the game further..I can't wait to hear about it... I doubt he’s quit…maybe he took a break but his pagerank is up to 4(which is decent)…V is probably making a pretty decent supplementary income off this site…no reason to quit that…I hope he didn’t die! jeez…Let’s just hope he’s in the lab working on some fresh new content, field reports, and pushing himself and the game further..I can’t wait to hear about it…

]]> By: December http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4589 December Sun, 06 Apr 2008 18:17:39 +0000 http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4589 Did he say he was a model? I thought he was just trying to become one, meeting girls there and/or gaining connections, or for fun. I'm too lazy to look back to confirm. Some people don't get laid before their twenties. There are real life 40 year old virgins. Also I think the number is alright. It may be a lot in such an amount of time but if you go out and ask an even greater amount of girls it can happen. Just think of how many he failed with. Anyway, I think it's what Wednesday said. Did he say he was a model? I thought he was just trying to become one, meeting girls there and/or gaining connections, or for fun.

I’m too lazy to look back to confirm.

Some people don’t get laid before their twenties. There are real life 40 year old virgins.

Also I think the number is alright. It may be a lot in such an amount of time but if you go out and ask an even greater amount of girls it can happen. Just think of how many he failed with.

Anyway, I think it’s what Wednesday said.

]]> By: Jeremy http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4588 Jeremy Sun, 06 Apr 2008 06:15:38 +0000 http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4588 Probably caught an STD and is now in the hospital. I always wondered if some of the stuff was BS though...says he's a model and (1) didn't get laid until his twenties and (2) has Napoleon Dynamite hair. Also the count is ridiculously high for that short of a time...gotta have some standards. I think the one thing about this PUA culture is that it allows people who grew up for whatever reason (perhaps not having a strong male role model) not knowing how to socialize, flirt and be attractive to girls to acquire skills and mentality to do so. However, whats the long term result? I thought "Hells Yeah", I'll hook up with hot girls. In the two and a half years since I lost my virginity (and it was a case of bad beer goggles I might add) I've slept with ~15 girls, all decent looking but none a Perfect 10 knockout. Recently I've met a girl who is "cute enough". I think we can all relate to what that means. She's a college athlete, intelligent and has a personality that is just super fun to be around...and that's what matters. Maybe "V" is taking a break for whatever reason. Maybe he's realized that this is a non-sustaining player lifestyle. Even guys like Mystery have a desire to settle down. I'm continuing to be interested in PUA as it really is a social science - the dynamics of gender communication and interaction. But for me it now extends past this subset into something more. For me, I want to deconstruct what it is to be charismatic. I can't find a decent definition of what "charisma" is, or how to become more "charismatic" even though we all know what it looks like - it's seemingly undefinable. I'm not going to try and pimp my blog, but I will say that I do put some of my own thoughts and comments on my site www.charismaproject.blogspot.com . It's not great and I probably don't update it enough either, but it's just something I'm interested in and I think there are lots of others out there thinking on a similar wavelength. Cheers, ~ J Probably caught an STD and is now in the hospital. I always wondered if some of the stuff was BS though…says he’s a model and (1) didn’t get laid until his twenties and (2) has Napoleon Dynamite hair. Also the count is ridiculously high for that short of a time…gotta have some standards.

I think the one thing about this PUA culture is that it allows people who grew up for whatever reason (perhaps not having a strong male role model) not knowing how to socialize, flirt and be attractive to girls to acquire skills and mentality to do so. However, whats the long term result? I thought “Hells Yeah”, I’ll hook up with hot girls. In the two and a half years since I lost my virginity (and it was a case of bad beer goggles I might add) I’ve slept with ~15 girls, all decent looking but none a Perfect 10 knockout. Recently I’ve met a girl who is “cute enough”. I think we can all relate to what that means. She’s a college athlete, intelligent and has a personality that is just super fun to be around…and that’s what matters.

Maybe “V” is taking a break for whatever reason. Maybe he’s realized that this is a non-sustaining player lifestyle. Even guys like Mystery have a desire to settle down.

I’m continuing to be interested in PUA as it really is a social science - the dynamics of gender communication and interaction. But for me it now extends past this subset into something more. For me, I want to deconstruct what it is to be charismatic. I can’t find a decent definition of what “charisma” is, or how to become more “charismatic” even though we all know what it looks like - it’s seemingly undefinable.

I’m not going to try and pimp my blog, but I will say that I do put some of my own thoughts and comments on my site http://www.charismaproject.blogspot.com . It’s not great and I probably don’t update it enough either, but it’s just something I’m interested in and I think there are lots of others out there thinking on a similar wavelength.

Cheers,

~ J

]]> By: Clarence http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4586 Clarence Wed, 02 Apr 2008 13:24:53 +0000 http://www.becomingapua.com/2008/03/06/well-looky-here/#comment-4586 somehow i really think he died. theres no other explaination. somehow i really think he died. theres no other explaination.

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