Here are my questions:

1. Do you think that beyond art, it all really boils down to “looks,” in other words, would a guy who is not as attractive as you probably are, have the same success? What are your thoughts on this?

2. Do you think it’s possible for you to fall in love with a girl friend? Have you ever had that experience?

3. Are you able to tell if a girl is faking an orgasm (how) and if yes, do you care? If you don’t care, why not?

4. What’s your take on marriage?

1. This is not a “Yes” or “No” question. First, what is “success” to you? A person living in the Playboy mansion that looks like Steve Urkel will have far more “success” than someone who looks like Christian Bale living alone in the desert. There are a multitude of other factors (i.e. the type of girls you like and the amount of them in your location, the age of girls you like, how low on the scale of attractiveness are you willing to go.)

2. When I think I’m “falling in love” I remember something from the 1997 movie The Devil’s Advocate:

Kevin Lomax: What about love?
John Milton: Overrated. Biochemically no different than eating large quantities of chocolate.

3. When you’ve given a girl a real orgasm you can tell when one is faking. I’d recommend you pick up some material on tantra and finding a girl you can practice with.

4. Marriage is just something that was introduced with religion. Religion and marriage are on their way out as you can see. Until you’ve truly found yourself I don’t think you should get married. If you don’t even know yourself then how can you know you’ve found “the one”? And no, you will not find your true self with religion, a spiritual movement, nor ANYTHING else that has rituals and/or routines.

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John asks:

Glad you’re back!

Which method do you think is better, the more natural Mystery method or the Ross Jeffries NLP approach? Also, once you’re on a date with a girl, what’s the best way to segue from casual conversation to making out with the girl?

John in Paris, France

Well the Mystery Method is more indirect while Ross Jeffries is more direct. If you’re more comfortable being indirect then go with MM, otherwise try Speed Seduction.

Going from conversation to kissing will have to depend on how you got into the conversation in the first place (direct or indirect).

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RockStarLand asks:

Hey V. It’s nice to see that you aren’t dead. How’s school going? You all finished yet?

Life is my school, and no, I’ll never be finished.

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Jason asks:

where the fuck did you go?

Mainly to my basement to play Rock Band … and some traveling

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b asks:

Is there such a thing as TOO much negging? I think I seriously pissed off a girl I sorta dig the other day by being mean. What do I do?

Yes. Hey, at least you got an emotional reaction from her. If you were an asshole then when you see her again forget like it ever happened and move on.

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Capablanca asks:

What’s up V, greetings from Mexico.
I’m happy you’re back.
I like your blog, a lot, it’s very inspiring.
I’m amazed about your fast and radical transformation.
I’ve decided to become a PUA too, but it will represent a radical change of life, since i have already a girlfriend, but God!, i’m bored of my life, i need a change. It’s hard you know?
I’m 25 years and I don’t wanna keep like this, need to move on. I’ve been 7 years with my girl, so its really tough.
Well, i guess i still don’t have questions, but if you could only give me some inspiring advices.
I respect you man, a lot. (Sorry about my English)
See ya!

Do not pursue what is illusory - property and position: all that is gained at the expense of your nerves decade after decade and can be confiscated in one fell night. Live with a steady superiority over life - don’t be afraid of misfortune, and do not yearn after happiness; it is after all, all the same: the bitter doesn’t last forever, and the sweet never fills the cup to overflowing.
-Alexandr Solzhenitsyn