Chris C. asks:

awesome stuff on your site first off. I read, watch and listen to seduction material every single day.I’ve made progress yet….I still don’t approach, sarge or talk to women. I have very low self esteem and although I feel that I have made progress it’s not enough to get me talking to strangers, trying material or going out and sarging. I feel that If I had friends that were into this stuff I would be more inclined to actually sarge. How do you recommend I meet other AFC’s or people willing to give me some first had knowledge in my city Northern Virginia/Washington D.C that are willing to sarge with me? I have hit up everybody in my geographical area on fastseduction MASF but have gotten no responses except one dude who claims to be a level 5(website rating of himself) PUA but hardly goes out sarging anymore.

The ability for you to approach, sarge or talk to women is within you. Refrain from worrying about finding other guys who are into this material, cause it’ll likely result in a mental circle jerk.

If you HAVE to go out with other people then find regular guys who just go out to have fun.

It seems that you read, watch and listen to seduction material everyday just for mental masturbation.

Stop watching, reading and listening to seduction material until you have approached 100 different women.

Why? Cause it’ll get you out of your conscious (logical) mind and into your unconscious (creative) mind.

You seem to be stuck in your conscious mind (i.e. “Ah yes, that is the perfect routine to get a one night lay. Yes! Imagine the girls I could get by using it …).

When you’re stuck in the conscious mind then you can’t use your unconscious mind to it’s full potential.

If your unconscious mind can keep you breathing and keep your heart beating then I think it can handle a conversation with an attractive woman.

Stop thinking and start doing. You’ll learn more about yourself and develop a way of approaching and meeting women that fits you.

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