Ean B. asks:

Hey V,

I’m another fan of your website. I was just wondering, what’s your take on meeting girl friends online?

I have a more specific example. Truth is, I’m only 15. I’m trying to get the art down early so I am an experienced pick-up artist by the time I hit college, when it’s really going to matter. I’ve met some girls I might be interested in online (not through a dating service of course, just through perusing forums and through networking sites) and I have always been at a loss at how to correctly handle the situation. Any advice on this subject would be much appreciated.

I find that meeting girls, between ages 18 and 25, from the Internet too easy. I’m 23 so I prefer to meet girl friends in real life, cause I can approach a wider array of women in real life than a 15-year-old could.

If you want experience then you want quantity, not quality.

Being that you’re 15 I’d recommend the following:

- Use the Internet (i.e. Facebook, myspace . . .) when finding girls to date. It’ll allow you to find many girls around your age with ease.

- When it comes to cold approaching I’d recommend the street. Approach everyone (guys, girls, young, old, black, white) and introduce yourself.

With approach and dating experience you’ll be more than ready when you get to college.

Once you’re in college, and of legal drinking age, then focus on finding dates in the real world and less on the Internet

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